I've thought about how God tends to be pulled out of a bottle like a Jeanie or even a game. I KNOW that God is not either one. He is not about having a poker hand and luck of the draw. HE IS GOD. He is the best thing that ever happened to me. I can not and will not do life with out Him.
With having said that, I wonder if you have ever had someone compare you to them in their walk with the Lord? I think it can be dangerous, but perhaps it can also be a personal time of reflection and growth. I have a precious friend that is very dear to me. Open and Honest are our names and what we are all about. I believe a true Girlfriend will be this for you or I, and I also believe a Mentor/Mentee relationship needs to be all about this as well.
This dear friend made a statement that I have pondered on for 5 days now and I have her permission to share with each of you, but she was in a valley and said that there are times that she feels she is on the "C" team while I'm on the "Varsity". I'm not saying this in pride, because I honestly do not want pride to have a hold on me. I don't want pride to have a hold on you either. We left it at that for the moment.
Whether you are a Mentor, or a Mentee; whether a mature Christian or a young Christian, I believe that this may help you and I in our very own walk. We must participate if we are going to move forward. No sitting on the bench or in the stands but truly participating. It is all a process and in this walk of being a Believer there really is not instantaneous VARSITY team player. We all start on the "C" team. ALL OF US! Every one of us was CHOSEN (picked) by God.
I touched briefly upon this earlier but am going in a different direction: I think it is extremely good and wise to measure ourselves, but not against one another. Only against the word of God. If we are frustrated at where we are in our walk, we need to evaluate what is causing this frustration?
Sisters and Brothers, what does it take to be a part of the team, in the "game"?
A WILLING HEART
A GREAT COACH
FAITH
TIME
ENCOURAGEMENT
SURRENDER, it is not about me...
talent
excellence not just enduring
I think this small list is what we need when we begin and continue our walk with Christ. Our heart to be surrendered knowing that my life is now about pointing others to Christ. That God is MY God, and that He has the #1 spot in my heart, in my thoughts and in my life. If He doesn't then I need to work at placing Him there. He won't do it on His own, that reflects back to surrendering, having a willing heart and the time you or I invest. It's a choice! Perhaps a sticky note, or a piece of jewelry that you SEE, or your bible with you at all times...would be great ways to help place Christ first. Then it will become natural. We are told it takes faith only the size of a mustard seed. That is itty bitty but with mega rewards!
Matthew 17:19-21 NIV "Then the disciples came to Jesus in private and asked, "Why couldn't we drive it out?" He replied, "Because you have so little faith. I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you."
As you are evaluating your own walk from where you were at a year ago, to today, to where you want to be a year from now.......
1) What will it take for me and from me to be on the Varsity team?
2) Am I willing to do that?
3) If I'm not, then until I do, I will remain on the "c" team.
4) It is dangerous to covet....as a matter of fact, we are told not to!
5) Start small.....be thankful that you are part of the team.
6) I want to re-iterate that...start small, make a decision and carry through, then when that works for you, take the next step.
No matter the "a" team or the "c" team...we are ALL team-mates!
When I first accepted Christ, I bought my own bible and started learning the placement of the books. I had no idea where Genesis would be found, Psalms or Revelation, and all the other 63 books of the bible. I had a note pad and took tons of notes. I sought out another Believer that I knew I wanted what she had, and she graciously poured her time and encouragement into me for a time....then she stepped back to allow me to find out who I was and my own walk. God lit a fire in me and it is up to me to fan that flame, for it to grow larger and larger. Not up to my Pastor, or my Mentor, or my sweet husband. The decision rests upon my shoulders only.
Truly, I desire that my very own walk would place a hunger in others for their own unique, individual walk, not a copy cat of mine.
Father God, I thank You for the men and women You have placed in my life to fan a desire in me to KNOW You and love You. To set aside time to invest in "our "relationship, just the two of us. May those that see the difference You have made in my life, hunger to have their own walk. Lord, You are so worthy. Amen.

16 comments:
I love this post Yolanda. I want to be on the Varsity team! I so desire to draw closer each day to my Lord. I want to hear Him whisper my name. I want to KNOW HIM!
You are a great friend and a wonderful woman of God,
Beth
Oh, so wise. That comparison thing is so counterproductive, if not dangerous. Excellent advice, my friend!
Hugs,
Melinda
I think that it is very good. Such good points to ponder. Thank you, for being a part of my life and sharing your time with me. My desire to play Varsity has been rekindled with words of encouragement.
Not that it sounds like a team name, but I would say we are all on the "R" team. The Redeemed team. When we are not involved as much as we ought to be or we are letting the world drag us away and slowly we are losing focus on God, we are still on the same team and He is still waiting. My Pastor shared a great point last night when talking about Abraham, "there is a difference between doubt and unbelief." Abraham had doubt, and he was a friend of God's.
I know I have been at every degree of belief and will experience even still different shades of it until I meet Jesus; Glory to God we are all on the same team together as we do it.
Wow! This post REALLY touched my heart today. Thank you!
I have been enjoying your blog and learning from it for some time now, and I have (just today!) started my own. (yay!)
I am glad to be part of His team, even if I do have a ways to go before I am even close to measuring up to what I read in the Bible.
Thank you for your words of wisdom!
Many blessings to you!
This is so good, Yo! We, as women, do tend to compare ourselves to each other...society is always telling us that we can never measure up. But you are right if we compare ourselves to the True Plumb Line, we will see that we can NEVER measure up, except through His sweet sacrifice.
love ya!
I enjoyed your post.
I have had to remind myself that I should not get caought up in measuring myself with my friends or even the new "fads" of the worlds way.... when I do, I only start to sink. I need to be focused on the Lord's thoughts about me, and measure myself up against the Word.
Thanks for the insight :O)
Have a blessed evening.
In Him, Deanna
So glad to be a part of the team, regardless of my position right now. Comparison is a huge pit; better to stay focused on the Author and the Perfecter of our faith. That way, focus remains clear.
Have a restful weekend, friend.
God's peace to you~elaine
Yolanda... I've just "discovered" your blog via LPM's and what a blessing it is to read your entries. thank you!
The song, "Put me in coach, I'm ready to play" came to mind as I read your post. I want to be on the varsity team with you - holding the line, advancing the ball, headed toward the goal. Looking forward to praising Him in the end-zone with you!
Blessings - Lisa
I am with you - it is all a fine line. Yes Jesus - The Word is our standard. Yet I have some friends to whom I look, those whose lives shine for Him and like Him. Sometimes watching our friends who wear Jesus' flesh is a wonderful way to learn to walk like Him. Great words to ponder. Not gonna' focus on them, but on Him!
Van...Ladies....I love each one of you and appreciate your thoughts and comments. There is such a fine line...but if we don't see the LIGHT of others and hunger for that...what would drive us to be any different? Just so important to not copy cat their walk. But find our very own relationship with Christ. Love, Yolanda :-)
What a great post to ponder! And yes, not 'a higher power' or 'Oprah' - BUT GOD HIMSELF!!!
It's all about HIM!!
We cannot give others what we have found - but we CAN give them a hunger for it! Beth Moore gave me that hunger and I devoured the WORD and then found what she had! Now I'm on that Varsity team - and sometimes that requires me to sit the bench [as Elaine - another blogger] wrote about a week ago] so that others can step up and participate too. There is a true balance in that - and it's how we keep pride from taking over - because it's always 'there' - just waiting to pounce! UGH!
Lots of great thoughts that you sparked with this one and oh - yes - AMEN!!!
Looking UPward and Choosing JOY,
Stephanie
[Time to FY]
It was great to visit with you today via telephone. I hope we can do it again. God bless you!!
Leah
I learned from your wise words ..
and thanks for visiting my blog.
Bernice
Something that is just amazing, after I wrote this later in the day I went to view the video I had missed the night before of Esther. I was out with a stomach virus...
Beth Moore stated on the video:
Big battles are won by teams!
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